The Tenth Chapter Avoiding Idle Talk

  Avoiding Idle Talk

   SHUN the gossip of men as much as possible, for discussion of worldly

   affairs, even though sincere, is a great distraction inasmuch as we are

   quickly ensnared and captivated by vanity.

   Many a time I wish that I had held my peace and had not associated with

   men. Why, indeed, do we converse and gossip among ourselves when we so

   seldom part without a troubled conscience? We do so because we seek

   comfort from one another's conversation and wish to ease the mind

   wearied by diverse thoughts. Hence, we talk and think quite fondly of

   things we like very much or of things we dislike intensely. But, sad to

   say, we often talk vainly and to no purpose; for this external pleasure

   effectively bars inward and divine consolation.

   Therefore we must watch and pray lest time pass idly.

   When the right and opportune moment comes for speaking, say something

   that will edify.

   Bad habits and indifference to spiritual progress do much to remove the

   guard from the tongue. Devout conversation on spiritual matters, on the

   contrary, is a great aid to spiritual progress, especially when persons

   of the same mind and spirit associate together in God.